History is filled with stories of men who rebounded
from failure to become successful.
Henry Ford went
broke five times before he succeeded with the Ford Motor Company and
revolutionized manufacturing.
R.H. Macy started
seven businesses that failed before he succeeded with his department store.
Walt Disney was
fired by a newspaper editor because "he lacked imagination and had no good
ideas."He failed in business several
times and went bankrupt before he finally succeeded.
As a child,
Thomas Edison was told he was "too stupid to learn anything."He failed 1,000 times before he finally
succeeded in making a functional light bulb.
The Wright
brothers had many failed prototypes before they managed to get off the ground.
Abraham Lincoln
failed several times in business and lost several political races before he
became president.
Every Christian
is also a story of success that followed failure.
Every person who
becomes a Christian admits his failure.He recognizes that he is a sinner in need of a Savior.He confesses his failure and calls on the
Lord for forgiveness.
By faithfully
obeying the gospel of Christ, a sinner successfully obtains forgiveness of sins
by the grace of God.He is then set on a
course of good works in the name of Christ, bringing glory and honor to God.
To be eternally
successful, every Christian must continually rebound from failures just as God
directs.
Becoming a
Christian does not guarantee sinless perfection henceforth.In fact, we know that there will be failures,
for Scripture says, "If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves
and the truth is not in us" (1John 1:8).
Therefore, we
must handle our failures properly and use them to our own benefit and to God's
glory.
REBOUNDING FROM FAILURE
Failure for a Christian is sinning against God.
Sin is a
transgression of God's will.
Sin may be intentional so that we knowingly and
willingly defy the will of God (Heb. 10:26).
Sin may also be done in ignorance, for ignorance of
God's word causes us to stumble (Ps. 56:13; Prov. 3:21-24; 116:8; John 16:1;
Jude 24).
Sin also occurs
when we fail to act on God's will.This
is sometimes called a sin of omission, for we omit something we should have
done (Matt. 23:23; Jas. 4:17).
Any sin is a
failure, for it counteracts the very purpose of our being.Rather than bringing glory to God by good
works (Matt. 5:16; Eph. 2:10), a Christian's sin brings reproach on himself.
The first steps in rebounding from failure are confession
and repentance.
Confession incurs
the mercy of God, for 1John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful
and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness."
Likewise,
repentance is necessary for forgiveness.Consider Peter's advice to Simon, who was a Christian caught in sin in Acts
8:22:
"Therefore repent of this wickedness of yours, and
pray the Lord that, if possible, the intention of your heart may be forgiven
you."
Without
confession and repentance, it is impossible to overcome the failure of sin.
A confession is an admission of failure.Until sin is admitted, no recovery can occur.
Repentance is a changing of the mind about the sin, a
cessation of the sin, and a turning away from the sin.No one can recover from a sin that they
continue to commit.
Merely ceasing from sin is not enough, but rather it
is necessary to replace the evil deed with a good work.
When John the
baptist preached his message of repentance, he said, "Therefore bear fruit in
keeping with repentance" (Matt. 3:8).He
taught them to stop doing evil and start doing good (Luke 3:10-14).
Likewise, the
apostle Paul preached to the Gentiles "that they should repent and turn to God,
performing deeds appropriate to repentance" (Acts 26:20).
When the church
at Ephesus had "left their first love," Jesus said to them in Revelation 2:5, "Therefore
remember from where you have fallen, and repent and do the deeds you did at
first; or else I am coming to you and will remove your lampstand out of its
place -- unless you repent."
It is a great
success and brings much glory to God when a sinner turns to do good.
For example, when Saul turned from persecuting the
church to preaching the faith, Christians glorified God because of him (Gal.
1:23-24).
Regardless of how great a Christian's failure may be,
he can rebound into a great success.In
fact, the greater the failure, the greater the rebound.
Learn from your failures so that you do not repeat
them.
In Psalm 32,
David described his experience with sin and forgiveness, showing that sinners
should learn from such experiences.
Following his confession and forgiveness, David received
this message in Psalm 32:8-9:
8I will
instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go; I will counsel you
with My eye upon you.9Do not
be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding, whose trappings
include bit and bridle to hold them in check, otherwise they will not come near
to you.
David's sin was a tragedy for him, but it was also an
opportunity to learn from God.He
understood what he had done wrong so that he would not repeat his error.
When you have
sinned and know your weaknesses, you have an opportunity to seek strength and
grow in those areas.You also know to
avoid situations where your weaknesses will be exposed.
Do not allow your failure to prevent you from moving
forward.
Guilt is a great
burden that can weigh you down, but forgiveness takes away that burden.Consider Psalm 32:1-2:
1How
blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered!2How blessed is the man to whom
the LORD does not impute iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit!
Consider the
apostle Paul, whose forgiven sins did not prevent him from serving the Lord.
Notice 1Timothy 1:12-16:
12I thank
Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because He considered me faithful,
putting me into service, 13even though I was formerly a blasphemer
and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. Yet I was shown mercy because I acted
ignorantly in unbelief; 14and the grace of our Lord was more than
abundant, with the faith and love which are found in Christ Jesus.15It is a trustworthy statement,
deserving full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save
sinners, among whom I am foremost of all.16Yet for this reason I found mercy, so that in me as the
foremost, Jesus Christ might demonstrate His perfect patience as an example for
those who would believe in Him for eternal life.
Rather than being mired in guilt, Paul accepted God's
forgiveness.His past sins did not
disqualify him from serving Christ, and his forgiveness became an asset to
teach others.
Use your experience in sin and forgiveness to help
others.
Relate your
experience to others just as David did in Psalm 51:12-13:
12Restore
to me the joy of Your salvation and sustain me with a willing spirit.13Then I will teach transgressors
Your ways, and sinners will be converted to You.
Strengthen your
brothers just as the Lord directed Peter to do in Luke 22:31-32:
31"Simon,
Simon, behold, Satan has demanded permission to sift you like wheat; 32but
I have prayed for you, that your faith may not fail; and you, when once you
have turned again, strengthen your brothers."
Like David,
Peter, and Paul, a forgiven sinner has a great opportunity to teach those who
are still trapped in sin because the path to forgiveness is the same for all.
Indeed, a
Christian's experience with sin should give him sympathy for sinners just as
Christ's experience with temptation gives Him sympathy for us (Heb. 4:15).
CONCLUSION
All of us fail from time to time, but the greatest
failure of all is the failure to rebound properly.
Christ has made it possible to recover from sin
through His gospel and become successes in God's forgiveness.Will you rebound from your failures through
Christ, or will you remain marred in the guilt of sin?