In this present age and culture, there may be more
dangers to the eyes of a man than there have ever been before.
Because the
culture celebrates immorality and immodesty, dangers to men lurk around almost
every corner.
Many women are not ashamed to display themselves in
ways to provoke lust in men, and many men are happy to look on these women.
Moreover, images of unclothed women adorn the
billboards that line the highways and the magazines that line the checkout
aisles at grocery stores.
If we allow it,
the technology of our age brings even worse images right into our homes through
television and the internet.
This environment
is a visual minefield for Christians who are trying to keep themselves
pure.It is almost impossible to avoid
the danger.
Despite the abundance of temptations around you, you
may tend to treat the lust of the eyes lightly, but do not be deceived.
The lust of the
eyes is a dangerous fire that threatens to consume the soul.
The apostle John tells us, "For all that is in the
world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of
life, is not from the Father, but is from the world" (1John 2:16).
The lust of the
eyes is no less serious than the lust of the flesh or the boastful pride of
life, and they all are passing away along with the world and those who are
controlled by them (1John 2:17).
Therefore, don't
be fooled into thinking a little "window shopping" is alright.It is not okay just to look.
This lesson is addressed to men primarily, but it has applications
for women, too.We all need to keep our
eyes and hearts pure and avoid causing anyone else to stumble due to the lust
of the eyes.
THE EYES ARE A CHANNEL TO THE HEART
The Bible warns against allowing your gaze to fix on
that which is unlawful to you.
In Matthew
5:27-29, Jesus addressed the issue of a man's wandering eye:
27"You
have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery'; 28but
I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already
committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye makes
you stumble, tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to
lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into
hell."
The Lord shows that adultery in the flesh begins with
adultery in the heart.This occurs with
a lustful gaze.It is a precursor and
root cause of the sin of adultery.
This warning is not for married men only, for it is
given to "everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her."If a woman is not your wife, then you are not
to lustfully look at her, even if she is unmarried.
Notice that Jesus
connected the eye to the heart.Indeed,
the eye is like a pipeline directly to the heart, and what enters the eye can
quickly fill the heart.
In Luke 11:34-35, Jesus said,
34"The eye
is the lamp of your body; when your eye is clear, your whole body also is full
of light; but when it is bad, your body also is full of darkness.35Then watch out that the light in
you is not darkness."
If your eyes are fixed on a woman who is not your
wife, then thoughts of fornication and adultery will likely fill your heart.
Consider the example of David, whose chain of sins
began with a mere glance.
David was walking
around on the roof his house when "he saw a woman bathing; and the woman was
very beautiful in appearance" (2Sam. 11:2).
In a very short
time, David took advantage of this woman, committed adultery, fathered a child,
and arranged for a cover-up involving the death of the woman's husband.
Keep in mind that
David was a man after God's heart (Acts 13:22).If the lust of the eyes could lead David down such a path of sin, then
could it not do the same to you?
MAKE A COVENANT
To avoid the likeness of David's sins, you must
purpose in your heart to protect your eyes from provocation.
Follow the
example of Job 31:1, where Job said, "I have made a covenant with my eyes; how
then could I gaze at a virgin?"
The reason Job
made this covenant with his eyes is explained in Job 31:9-12:
9"If my
heart has been enticed by a woman, or I have lurked at my neighbor's doorway, 10may
my wife grind for another, and let others kneel down over her.11For that would be a lustful
crime; moreover, it would be an iniquity punishable by judges.12For it would be fire that
consumes to Abaddon, and would uproot all my increase."
To avoid being "enticed by a woman," lurking at a
neighbor's doorway, and committing a "lustful crime" worthy of punishment, Job
cut off the opportunity for the lust at the source.Thus, he made a covenant with his eyes that
he would not gaze at a virgin so that his lust would not be provoked.
Let us understand
the substance of such a covenant.It is
a commitment not to gaze (stare) at a woman in lust.It is not a prohibition against ever seeing a
woman other than one's wife or appreciating beauty in a woman, but rather it
prohibits the purpose of lust and the duration of the view.
Ironically, David
made a similar covenant with his eyes in Psalm 101:3-4:
3I will
set no worthless thing before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away;
it shall not fasten its grip on me.4A
perverse heart shall depart from me; I will know no evil.
This entire psalm is an expression of commitment to a
holy life.That commitment includes a
prohibition of the eyes viewing any worthless things.
No woman is a worthless thing, but the act of
lustfully gazing on a woman is worthless or even worse.
David's
commitment was compromised when he allowed a glimpse of a woman to become a
gaze and then much more.
The covenant between you and your eyes is that you
will not look with lust on a woman who is not your wife.
Proverbs 6:25
says, "Do not desire her beauty in your heart, nor let her capture you with her
eyelids."
Not only will you
not look lustfully on a woman who is in your presence, but also you will not
even look with lust on images on television, on the internet, or in printed
materials (magazines, books, etc.).
This covenant
will be a great blessing to you, for you are protecting your heart when you
discipline your eyes.
CONCLUSION
Therefore, make a covenant with your eyes today, and
keep it always.Consider the advice of
Ecclesiastes 11:9:
Rejoice, young man, during your childhood, and let
your heart be pleasant during the days of young manhood.And follow the impulses of your heart and the
desires of your eyes.Yet know that God
will bring you to judgment for all these things.
The covenant you make with your eyes will guide the
desires of your eyes so that you may stand justified before God's
judgment.It will prevent your eyes from
leading you down a path of condemnation.Keep this blessed covenant, and pray that you may keep your heart pure
by keeping it according to the word of God (Ps. 119:9).