What advice would you follow to overcome
anxiety? You might tell yourself to
simply get over it or to stop worrying about it, but such thoughts alone are
rarely helpful. Whether it is for your
own sake or for the sake of a brother or sister in Christ whom you might help,
you need to know God's directions concerning anxiety. These directions are not merely commandments
demanding that you abstain from worry, but rather they are practical alternatives
for anxiety. God gives us both negative
instructions of what we should not do and positive instructions of what we
should do. To be successful in
overcoming anxiety, we need to observe all that God has said on the matter.
Because
anxiety is a state of mind, it is important first to set your mind on correct,
faithful thinking. The Lord focused on
such thoughts when He preached about anxiety in His sermon on the mount. His words direct our minds to think not about
the provisions of life but about the Provider of those things. Notice Matthew 6:25-30:
25"For
this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you
will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on.
Is not life more than food, and the body
more than clothing? 26Look at
the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and
yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are
you not worth much more than they? 27And
who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life? 28And why are you worried about
clothing? Observe how the lilies of the
field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin, 29yet I say to you
that not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these. 30But if God so clothes the grass
of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace,
will He not much more clothe you? You of
little faith!"
Christ calls us to be reasonable in our
thinking, for the evidence of God's care, concern, and providential power is
all around us. He says, "Your Father knows
what you need before you ask Him" (Matt. 6:8).
Such correct, faithful thinking is the first step in relieving anxiety.
While
correct thinking is essential, it is not enough by itself. Notice that Christ completed His message
against anxiety with a call to action in Matthew 6:31-34:
31"Do
not worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What
will we wear for clothing?' 32For
the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that
you need all these things. 33But
seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be
added to you. 34So do not
worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough
trouble of its own.
A person who is seeking first the
kingdom of God and His righteousness is not idle. Instead of passively allowing anxiety to
dominate him, he is actively busy in his pursuit of God's kingdom and
righteousness. This pursuit includes
doing everything that is good and right according to God's word, from
worshiping God and studying His word (John 4:23-24; 2Tim. 2:15; 3:16-17) to
working to provide for one's own family and the needs of others (Eph. 4:28;
1Tim. 5:8; 2Thess. 3:6-15). The
Christian simply has too much to do to be occupied with worry.
Prayer
is an alternative to anxiety that involves both thinking and doing. It is the act of thoughtfully speaking to God
about a myriad of subjects. This
alternative is recommended in Philippians 4:6-7:
6Be
anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with
thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7And the peace of God, which
surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ
Jesus.
By engaging the mind with God in prayer
and trusting that He hears and answers in the best way according to His will
(1John 5:14-15), anxiety is replaced with peace and confidence from God.
Finally, it is necessary that you see
humility as an alternative to anxiety.
This may not seem logical at first, but consider it carefully. Much anxiety is the result of undue
self-reliance. Mistakenly trusting in
oneself for all the answers to life's questions naturally leads to anxiety
because the answers are not in man (Jer. 10:23). Instead, you must humbly accept God's answers
to life's questions, mold your life according to His word, and expect good
results. "Therefore humble yourselves
under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting
all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you" (1Pet. 5:6-7).
These alternatives are the sound and
practical advice of God's holy word concerning anxiety. If you follow them, then you can have that "peace
of God which surpasses all comprehension."
On the other hand, if you follow the course of this world, then you will
remain bound in worry. Therefore, "Cast
your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the
righteous to be shaken" (Ps. 55:22).