A. God is the source of all true joy, for David says to
Him in Psalm 16:11, "You will make known to me the path of life; in Your
presence is fullness of joy; in Your right hand there are pleasures forever."
B. True joy is found in God, but men find false joy
through many other sources. In this
lesson, we will consider a series of contrasts that show the truth about false
joy.
II. TRUE OR FALSE
A. True joy is directed toward God who gives all blessings,
but false joy is directed toward the blessings themselves.
1.
Every good thing
given and every perfect gift comes from God (Jas. 1:17), so our joy and
gratitude for the blessings of life should focus on Him.
2.
Consider some
examples of men whose joy was centered on their blessings rather than the God
who blessed them.
a. In Jonah 4:6, the Bible says, "So the LORD God
appointed a plant and it grew up over Jonah to be a shade over his head to
deliver him from his discomfort. And
Jonah was extremely happy about the plant."
However, when the plant withered, Jonah became angry (Jon. 4:9). Instead, he should have had the attitude of
Job, who said, "The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name
of the LORD" (Job 1:21).
b. In the parable of Luke 12:13-21, the rich man said to
himself, "Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years to come; take your
ease, eat, drink and be merry." However,
God said to him, "You fool! This very
night your soul is required of you; and now who will own what you have
prepared?" His false joy ended in an
instant.
B. True joy is found in bringing glory to God, but false
joy is found in receiving glory for self.
1.
We were created
to bring glory to God (Isa. 43:7; Matt. 5:16), so we find our greatest joy in
fulfilling our God-given purpose.
2.
However, men
often pervert their purpose and seek their own glory. They may find some temporary happiness in
doing so, but there is no lasting joy in self-glorification.
3.
Consider the
example of Haman, who rejoiced to be honored with the king, but "was filled
with anger against Mordecai," who refused to "stand up or tremble before him" (Esth.
5:9). Haman could not maintain his
false, selfish joy because of one man who would not honor him. He said, "Yet all of this does not satisfy me
every time I see Mordecai the Jew sitting at the king's gate" (Esth. 5:13).
C. True joy comes with righteousness, but false joy comes
from foolishness.
1.
The general
attitude of the world is that righteousness is "no fun." Therefore, happiness is often pursued by
means of foolishness, wickedness, and sin.
2.
The Scriptures
recognize this attitude of man and correct it in Proverbs 15:21 -- "Folly is joy
to him who lacks sense, but a man of understanding walks straight." A "man of understanding" knows that there is
no true joy in the folly of sin.
3.
True and lasting
joy is found in the righteousness of God as expressed in Psalm 33:1 -- "Sing for
joy in the LORD, O you righteous ones; praise is becoming to the upright."
D. True joy endures, but false joy is temporary.
1.
Consider again
the keynote verse for this series, Psalm 16:11 -- "You will make known to me the
path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy; in Your right hand there are
pleasures forever." Joy in the presence
of God never ends.
2.
In contrast to
the true, lasting joy that is found in God, the false joy of the world is fleeting. This truth is stated in Job 20:4-5 -- "Do you
know this from of old, from the establishment of man on earth, that the
triumphing of the wicked is short, and the joy of the godless momentary?"
E. True joy is realized when wicked men change their
ways, but false joy results when wicked men suffer.
1.
The attitude of
Christians toward the wicked should imitate the attitude of our heavenly
Father. Consider Ezekiel 33:11 -- "Say to
them, 'As I live!' declares the Lord GOD, 'I take no pleasure in the death of the
wicked, but rather that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn back, turn back from your evil ways! Why then will you die, O house of Israel?'"
2.
Therefore, let us
rejoice for the salvation of our enemies and not for their destruction. Notice Proverbs 24:17-18 -- "Do not rejoice
when your enemy falls, and do not let your heart be glad when he stumbles; or
the LORD will see it and be displeased, and turn His anger away from him."
F. True joy is received after godly sorrow, but false joy
comes by celebrating wickedness.
1.
It seems to be a
paradox to say that sorrow must come before joy, but sinners must experience
godly sorrow before they can have the joy of salvation. Notice Paul's words to the penitent
Corinthian Christians in 2Corinthians 7:9-10:
I now rejoice, not that you were made sorrowful, but
that you were made sorrowful to the point of repentance; for you were made
sorrowful according to the will of God, so that you might not suffer loss in
anything through us. For the sorrow that
is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading
to salvation, but the sorrow of the world produces death.
2.
Many times,
Israel rejected the prophets, who called them to repentance. Instead, they continued to revel in their
wicked ways. Consider the example of
Jerusalem, who was addressed in Isaiah 22:12-14:
Therefore in that day the Lord GOD of hosts called you
to weeping, to wailing, to shaving the head and to wearing sackcloth. Instead, there is gaiety and gladness,
killing of cattle and slaughtering of sheep, eating of meat and drinking of
wine: "Let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we may die." But the LORD of hosts revealed Himself to me,
"Surely this iniquity shall not be forgiven you until you die," says the Lord
GOD of hosts.
3.
Any joy that is
the product of wickedness, whether it is robbery, deceit, adultery, or any
other sinful activity, is false joy. Its
pleasure is momentary, but its regret can be eternal.
G. True joy is a companion of truth, but false joy is a
companion of deceit.
1.
In the last
lesson, we learned that the love of Christians "rejoices with the truth" (1Cor.
13:6). Indeed, the foundation of our joy
is the truth of God's word.
2.
However, wicked
men find empty joy, pleasure, and consolation with lies, deceit, and
wickedness. They are made happy by
someone who tells them what they want to hear rather than the truth.
3.
Consider some
examples.
a. Israel stubbornly refused to return to God and
rejected the words of the prophets. They
preferred instead to believe deceit as evidenced in Hosea 7:3 -- "With their
wickedness they make the king glad, and the princes with their lies."
b. Paul warned Timothy about a time when even some
Christians would seeks liars for their preachers. Notice 2Timothy 4:3-4 -- "For the time will
come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears
tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their
own desires, and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside
to myths."
H. True joy results from the endurance of trials, but
false joy exists where there are no trials.
1.
Faithful
Christians can see the spiritual benefits of hardships, and for this they
rejoice. Notice James 1:2-4 -- "Consider
it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the
testing of your faith produces endurance.
And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect
and complete, lacking in nothing."
2.
However,
Christians with no depth of faith find only a false joy. They rejoice at the prospect of salvation,
but they are unwilling to endure any hardship for it. Consider Matthew 13:20-21 -- "The one on whom
seed was sown on the rocky places, this is the man who hears the word and
immediately receives it with joy; yet he has no firm root in himself, but is
only temporary, and when affliction or persecution arises because of the word,
immediately he falls away."
III. CONCLUSION
A. True joy has no regrets. It arises from relationships, events, and
knowledge that are good, pure, godly, and true.
Therefore, true joy endures and transcends hardships, trials, and
uncertainty.
B. False joy often comes with regret, and that regret
eventually overtakes and eclipses the joy.
Such joy is built on faulty foundations.
It is produced by conditions, relationships, events, and knowledge that
are wrong, misunderstood, evil, corrupt, ungodly, and/or deceitful. False joy often never should have been
experienced because it was wrong from the beginning.
C. Therefore, let us be truly happy as God intended for
His people to be. May our joy be the
genuine kind that is built on our relationship with Almighty God and the truth
of His word.